A few weeks ago, some other ladies and I hosted a baby shower for our friends Steffany and Steve, who are expecting a baby in July. The shower was a couples shower, held outside in an orchard, so the atmosphere was more like a summer barbecue. One of my primary responsibilities was to create a playlist for the party, and the results are something I’m pretty proud of. In fact, I’ve listened to the playlist on several occasions since the party! Of course, as befitting the occasion, the theme was “baby”:
“Timshel,” Mumford & Sons (The only one without a direct title reference; however, I chose this because of the line “You are the mother / The mother of your baby child / The one to whom you gave life” and because it’s such a beautiful song.)
“Always Be My Baby,” Mariah Carey
“…Baby One More Time,” Britney Spears
“Can’t Get Enough of You Baby,” Smash Mouth
“Baby,” Justin Bieber (Steff is a HUGE Bieber fan and was delighted when this song started to play!)
Tomorrow is my 26th birthday. While last year seemed like such a milestone, this year, I’m not sure I’ll even celebrate. Maybe that’s because I’m busy and tired, or maybe it’s because most of the people I want to celebrate with are out-of-town or busy. Probably, though, it’s because 26 just doesn’t seem like a special number. (25 = 5 x 5. I like everything to be in multiples of 5, so last year, 25 just seemed like the absolute perfect number and the perfect age to be. Weird, huh?)
However, 26 is the number of letters in the English alphabet, so that’s kind of cool. To celebrate, I decided to make a new iTunes playlist–one of my favorite songs for each letter of the alphabet. You’d be surprised how difficult that was–do you know how many of my favorite songs start with the letter W? A lot. But here’s what I came up with:
A: “Awake My Soul,” Mumford & Sons.
My most-played track on iTunes. My current favorite song, period. Is it wrong to tell you that I cried when they played this live Tuesday night in Asheville? I don’t have words to explain how much I love this song. Watch this video and smile because not only is the song beautiful, but Mumford & Sons are also just SO DARN CUTE.
B: “The Ballad of Love and Hate,” The Avett Brothers.
The song that made me love The Avett Brothers. Also a beautiful song.
C: “C’Mon, C’Mon,” Switchfoot.
Like so many Switchfoot songs, this one is about purpose and fighting for a life worth living. It’s from one of their EPs, and I actually only acquired it a few months ago.
D: “Drift Away,” Dobie Gray.
Old-school rock ‘n roll. Music about music. Wonderful. Also, this video is Dobie Gray singing the song in 1974.
E: “Even Cowgirls Get the Blues,” The Gaslight Anthem.
My favorite song from the fantastic album The ’59 Sound. I love this song because it’s slow and nostalgic and it still rocks. This is a song that makes me want to be young and idealistic and never really grow up.
F: “Fields of Gold,” Sting.
One of the songs I grew up hearing on the radio that I realized as I got older I really, really loved. But then again, how could you not love Sting?
G: “Gold Digger,” Kanye West feat. Jamie Foxx.
No, this isn’t a joke. This actually is one of my favorite songs–so much so that it was easy to pick out a track for the letter G. I can sing all the words to the song. Harvin finds this fact to be the absolute most intriguing thing about me.
H: “Head Full of Doubt / Road Full of Promise,” The Avett Brothers.
Sometimes, this (along with “Awake My Soul”) is just what I need to give me the energy to walk out of the door and face a new day: “If you’re loved by someone you’re never rejected / Decide what to be and go be it.” Also, the video is just wonderful.
I: “I Will Follow You Into the Dark,” Death Cab for Cutie.
Now, for something completely different. Melancholy and a bit emo, but I love it anyway.
J: “Joy to the World,” Three Dog Night.
Do I really need to explain why this song is awesome?
K: “Kiss Me,” Sixpence None the Richer.
This song came out when I was 13 and obsessed with Buffy the Vampire Slayer, who, at the time, was attending the prom without her vampire boyfriend Angel. This song is everything a romance-minded 13-year-old girl could love, and I (not so secretly now) still love the song.
L: “Let Me Back In,” Explosions in the Sky.
From their newest album Take Care, Take Care, Take Care. The first time I heard this, I was on the way to work (I had woken up early to download the album on the release day). And I realized when listening to this track that I was grinning like crazy because this song is so crazily-beautifully-wonderfully fun and hopeful that I could not control my smile.
M: “Mr. Jones,” Counting Crows.
I never get sick of this song. I can’t even explain why it’s so good; it just is. I love Counting Crows, but this is unarguably the greatest song they’ve ever written.
N: “Next to Me,” Civil Twilight.
This was also a difficult letter to choose, but in the end, I had to go with one of my favorite songs by one of my favorite bands. This is one of Civil Twilight’s newest songs (from the re-released album that actually came out about a year and a half ago), and it’s my current favorite CT song.
O: “One Headlight,” The Wallflowers.
Oh, the 90s. Weren’t they great?
P: “Pinebox,” The Winter Sounds.
If you’ve never listened to The Winter Sounds, go look them up right now. They’re amazing. They’re also great live, and this is such a phenomenal song.
Q: “The Queen of Lower Chelsea,” The Gaslight Anthem.
Not many songs start with the letter Q, but fortunately, there’s at least one great one. From The Gaslight Anthem’s last album, American Slang, released last summer. They grew up some after The ’59 Sound, and if that album made me want to stay young and idealistic, this album makes me realize that, even if being an adult brings changes, it’ll be okay anyway.
R: “Ready to Start,” Arcade Fire.
From The Suburbs, which rightfully won Album of the Year at the Grammys this year. Good heavens, this album is amazing from start to finish, and even though this song wasn’t my favorite in the beginning, I’ve found myself listening to it more and more lately as I’ve realized how brilliant it is. The song is edgy and even a bit defensive; it’s about recognizing that we often do things because of what other people we think, and it’s about being intentional in saying we’re not going to live our lives a certain way just because other people do to. Example: “All the kids have always known / That the emperor wears no clothes / But they bow down to him anyway / Because it’s better than being alone.”
After Arcade Fire accepted the Grammy, Win Butler set the trophy on an amp and proceeded to play this song as everyone started asking, “Who is Arcade Fire?!?”
S: “Stand By Me,” Ben E. King.
“When the night is young / And the land is dark / And the moon is the only light we’ll see . . . ” Come on, you know you love it, too.
T: “Teardrop (Live),” Civil Twilight.
I discovered the band Massive Attack because Civil Twilight almost always covers this wonderful song at their shows. The lyrics are a little different, and I prefer Civil Twilight’s version (probably because I just love them so freakin’ much.) Also, aren’t they adorable? Yes, yes, they are.
U: “Uprising,” Muse.
Epic. So epic.
V: “Virgin,” Manchester Orchestra.
This song makes me want to fight somebody. I get sort of twitchy and restless when I listen to it. That’s actually just what I expect of Manchester Orchestra. I don’t really know why that’s a good thing; it just is. Here’s the band performing on Letterman just a few weeks ago:
W: “We Used to Wait,” Arcade Fire.
Although a ton of great songs start with W, this was the obvious choice. I like to listen to this song on repeat while I read T.S. Eliot’s “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock.” Expect a lengthy blog post about that soon. In the meantime, go to the website The Wilderness Downtown and be amazed.
X: “Xanadu,” Olivia Newton-John.
I almost cheated and chose Moby’s “Extreme Ways” for this, but then I decided not to break my self-imposed rules. I chose this one because Xanadu is a ridiculously awesome movie, just like the 80s.
Y: “Your Hand in Mine,” Explosions in the Sky.
My favorite Explosions song. So beautiful. [Note: This almost lost to my favorite Switchfoot song "Your Love is a Song." But in the end, I decided this was even better to start closing out the playlist.]
Z: “Zephyrus,” Bloc Party.
I had one song that starts with Z in my entire iTunes library. Fortunately, it’s a great song by a great band.
I am six days away from my 25th birthday; therefore, I will soon be celebrating my first quarter-century on this earth. With my penchant for any number that is a multiple of 5 and my tendency to extract some great meaning or lesson from every potentially important day, is it any wonder that I’m experiencing some sort of quarter-century crisis?
By crisis, I mean those lingering questions: am I the person I want to be? By now, my moral character and personality are pretty unchangeable, I think. Do I have fatal flaws that will doom me in the future? Have I accomplished enough? Am I reaching my potential?
These are ridiculous questions. The logical part of my mind (small though it may be) understands that I’m probably ahead of the curve compared to even my own expectations. After all, just this past year, I was hired to teach college freshmen just two months after I turned 24 years old. I’m well on my way to earning a Master’s degree in English. I’ve begun traveling much more often than usual. I’ve lived on my own and managed to pay rent, bills, and necessities for three years now.
Still, the questions remain. I have a List full of unaccomplished goals (but, as I keep adding to the List faster than I can accomplish those goals, I realize that the List will always be lengthy). I am single, and many former close friends are married and raising families, making me wonder if I’m missing out on that important aspect of life. (Don’t lecture me in the comments, folks. I love my life, and I’m not ready for a family just yet. But a girl wonders sometimes.)
In light of all these emerging questions and my impending 25th birthday, I’ve found myself listening to a certain playlist on my iPod recently. I’ve got dozens of fun playlists filled with great music, but this one is special, and it’s not one that I play for others often. It’s one that I just call “The List,” one that corresponds to The List of Things to Do Before I Die. I save this list for the moments when I let my mind wander through those questions, when I think about all I want to accomplish in the next quarter-century of my life, when I let myself reflect on those desires and goals that I truly have: not the ones others have for me, but those times when I ask myself what I truly want. It’s essentially a carpe diem playlist. And I thought I’d post it on here. Don’t be surprised by how often Switchfoot shows up.
1. “I Am,” Train, from their self-titled debut album.
This one is the opening track because the song seems to be about a list of unaccomplished goals:
“I never been on a railroad / So many times they pass me by / I never crashed in the desert or seen a rodeo / Don’t know much about the world wars or Vietnam / I’ve yet to read about Uncle Tom / Never climbed a real rock or seen Colorado / Am I the son I think I am? / Am I the friend I think I am? / Am I the man I think I want to be?”
Sort of a cautionary tale against an average life:
“Does it have to start with a broken heart? / Broken dreams and bleeding parts / We were young, and the world was clear / But young ambition disappears / I swore it would never come to this / The average, the obvious / I’m still discontented down here / I’m still discontented / If we’ve only got one try / If we’ve only got one life / If time was never on our side / Then before I die, I want to burn out bright”
4. “Bullet Soul,” Switchfoot, from Hello Hurricane
“I wanna sing one for all the dreamers / I’m singing this one for the sparks / Here’s one for the friction makers / We are the bleeding hearts / Don’t care whoever you are / We rise and fall together / Our hearts still beat below / Oh, you can’t stand by forever / You’re a kid with a bullet soul / Are you ready to go?”
“I do it on a whim / It’s rhyme without reason / Whatever comes to mind, I’ll pull it from thin air / I’ve learned to improvise, to fill my time / I don’t want to live this life without reason”
Essentially, the most important song on the playlist…and one of my all-time faves.
“This is your life / Are you who you wanna be? / This is your life / Is it everything you dreamed that it would be / When the world was younger and you had everything to lose?”
7. “On the Bus,” Evan and Jaron, from Evan and Jaron.
Probably the first song I claimed as one that inspired me to simply live.
“Never say never / And don’t wait forever / It’s the perfect time to see that now is the time / To take a chance, take a shot, take control of the situation / I can’t stand around here telling you / About the things I’ve done and what I’ve gotta do / So are you on the bus or not? / ‘Cause we’re leaving the station.”
Exciting things happen around the next bend in the road. Just ask CCR:
“There’s a place up ahead and I’m goin’ / Just as fast as my feet can fly / Come away, come away, if you’re goin’ / Leave the sinking ship behind / Come on the risin’ wind / We’re goin’ up around the bend”
I found this one a Paste sampler last summer, and it’s a perfect closing track for the playlist!
“When I was lost / I saw you pointing toward the sun / I know I am not the only one standing here / And in the darkness, I was walking through the night / I could see your guiding light very clear / This is your life / This is your moment”
Harvin found a great link for me this morning, to an online book discussion group of sorts, in which users can write blog posts, provide a link on the website, and read what others have to say. January’s book? Stephenie Meyer’s The Host. One of my favorites!
First, if you’ve never read this book, you can find a decent plot synopsis here. When I’ve found myself describing this book, I generally launch into a summary that takes about 30 minutes, as I find it difficult to overlook any major details, and this is quite a complicated novel.
Anyway…onto the discussion. SPOILER ALERT: I’ll be discussing the ending of the novel. If you haven’t read it and don’t want to know what happens at the end, stop reading.
I read the Twilight series first (including Breaking Dawn). I read The Host for the first time in September, I believe. And re-read it in November. It’s that good. But it is very different from Twilight, and I can understand how some hardcore fans of Twilight may not enjoy The Host. This book is written for an adult audience (although I think mature teenagers could appreciate it). It isn’t that the book is graphic or contains too much adult content; it’s just that the content is heavier. It’s not an angsty teenager falling in love with a perfect boy/vampire. Meyer presents the idea of our civilization as we know it ending, of fighting to survive and hold onto some semblance of reality, of the real meaning of love. With this book, I think Meyer has proven her ability to be more than just a young adult writer.
One major strength of this novel is the way Meyer builds her character. Bella in Twilight annoyed me; she was too angsty, too emotional, too wrapped up in Edward (which is perhaps reality for some teenagers, but not something that needs to be promoted, in my opinion). In The Host, the main character is actually two: Wanderer (or Wanda), the host invading the human body; and Melanie, the human who just won’t let the soul take over. Wanda and Mel are as different as night and day: Mel is strong, persistent, courageous, all those good traits needed to fight to surive. Wanda is gentle, self-sacrificing, and kind, all good traits needed to be a soul, since their goal is to create a peaceful civilization. Wanda and Mel contradict each other in many ways, but that works, as all their strengths can work together to ensure their survival. I love Mel’s spunk, and I love Wanda’s ability to love.
As for the ending of the novel, I found it superb. I cried the first time I read it. (And teared up a little the second time.) In the end, Wanda knows she must be removed from Mel’s body in order for Mel to have her life back, including being with the man she loves, Jared. Wanda is also in love, however, with a man named Ian; while she wants to be with him, she cannot stand the thought of taking over another body, of destroying another life. She convinces the doctor in the compoud where they’re hiding to let her die and bury her on Earth. However, he goes back on his promise, and they find a host body where the original human can no longer be found. In the end, Melanie gets her body (and Jared) back, and Wanda gets a new body (without harming another human), and gets to stay on Earth and be with Ian.
As far as overall theme in the book, I walked away from reading it, hoping that one day, I could love like Wanda and Mel do. The two of them have deep, self-sacrificing love for their family. They fight hard for the people they love. They fight for what is right. This kind of love isn’t the overwhelming, passionate love of Edward and Bella (which is nice, but not always so realistic). Instead, this is the kind of all-encompassing love of a woman for her brother; for the kind, old gentleman dying of cancer; for the man she loves. It’s kind of hard to explain the difference to someone who has never read both books, but there is a definite difference, and in my opinion, The Host is far superior to Twilight (although I love that book, too).
On a side note, I have a playlist for The Host. It’s very exciting. I had actually just begun listening to it this morning when Harvin sent me the link. In case you’re interested, here is the album I would create if I were making the soundtrack for the book (with links to YouTube videos, ’cause I’m cool that way):
12. “This is Home” – Switchfoot (I know, I know, this was written for Prince Caspian…but it totally works…and I’m pretty much incapable of creating a playlist that doesn’t contain at least one Switchfoot song!)
